The scripture library

Every verse they use, taken apart, honestly.

Six passages get quoted at LGBTQ+ people. For each one you will see the verse in three translations, what it says in its original language, what was happening around it, and what it cannot have meant, because the situation it is used against did not exist when it was written. Then the other half of the library: twelve places where scripture widens the welcome, fourteen verses about who you actually are, an answer to every objection, and where to go next.

Before the arguments, the question underneath them: who wrote these words, when, and by what hands did they reach you?

Who wrote the Bible, and how it was made →
01

Sodom and Gomorrah

Genesis 19:1-11

“God destroyed Sodom for homosexuality.”

The sin of Sodom was violence against strangers.

The same verse, three translations

Read the differences. They are the whole argument.

King James Version 1611
But before they lay down, the men of the city, even the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both old and young, all the people from every quarter: and they called unto Lot, and said unto him, Where are the men which came in to thee this night? bring them out unto us, that we may know them.
NRSV 1989
But before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man, surrounded the house; and they called to Lot, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, so that we may know them.”
Common English Bible 2011
Before they went to bed, the men of the city of Sodom, both young and old, the whole population, surrounded the house. They called out to Lot and said, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Send them out to us so we can have sex with them!”

The men of the city surround Lot’s house and demand that he hand over his two guests so they can rape them. That is the crime Genesis describes: a mob threatening sexual violence against vulnerable travelers.

Scripture itself names Sodom’s sin elsewhere, and it never mentions same-sex love. Ezekiel 16:49 says: “This was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy.” Jesus references Sodom in the context of towns that refuse hospitality to his messengers (Matthew 10:15).

Whatever else is happening in Genesis 19, it is the story of attempted gang rape, not of two people in a mutual, loving relationship. Reading a modern debate about orientation back into it is a choice, not a translation.

In one sentence

Sodom is a story about inhospitality and sexual violence, not about a loving, consensual relationship.

Read it for yourselfEzekiel 16:49Matthew 10:11-15Judges 19 (the parallel story)
02

The Holiness Code

Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13

“The Bible calls it an abomination.”

A ritual code for ancient Israel, not a universal law.

The same verse, three translations

Read the differences. They are the whole argument.

King James Version 1611
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
NRSV 1989
You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.
Common English Bible 2011
You must not have sexual intercourse with a man as you would with a woman; it is a detestable practice.

These two verses sit inside the Holiness Code, laws meant to separate Israel from the surrounding Canaanite religious practices. The Hebrew idiom used (literally “the bed of a woman”) is about a man taking the sexual role of a woman, which in an ancient honor and shame society was about status and humiliation, not about the existence of same-sex orientation.

The word translated “abomination” (to’evah) is the same word used for eating non-kosher food (Deuteronomy 14:3), dishonest business scales (Proverbs 11:1), and a woman wearing a man’s garment. It is a ritual purity category, not the Bible’s word for grave moral evil. Christians who quote Leviticus 18:22 typically do not keep the laws two verses earlier about sex during menstruation, or the mixed-fiber rule in 19:19.

The code assumes every person is an Israelite man with a wife, property, and social rank. It has no category for the thing it is now used to condemn: a person who is same-sex attracted by nature, living in a mutual, faithful relationship. You cannot extract a rule from a world that did not know the situation you are in.

In one sentence

This is ancient Israel’s ritual and social code. It addresses status and purity within that world. It was never written about two women or two men in love.

Read it for yourselfLeviticus 18:19-23Leviticus 19:19Deuteronomy 14:3-8Proverbs 11:1
03

Paul and “against nature”

Romans 1:26-27

“Paul says it is against nature, and a consequence of idolatry.”

The passage is an argument about idolatry, and it is not finished in chapter 1.

The same verse, three translations

Read the differences. They are the whole argument.

King James Version 1611
For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: and likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
NRSV 1989
For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error.
Common English Bible 2011
Because of this, God gave them over to shameful passions. Their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. Likewise the men left natural relations with women and were consumed with desire for each other. Men did shameful things with other men and received in themselves the due penalty for their mistake.

Paul’s whole point in Romans 1 is that humanity exchanged the worship of God for idols. The sexual language is part of his description of people who abandoned what was natural for them, as a symptom of that exchange. The phrase he uses, “against nature” (para physin), is the same phrase he uses in Romans 11:24 for God acting against nature to graft Gentiles in. It is not a technical term for sexual orientation.

The concept of sexual orientation did not exist until the late 1800s. Neither Paul nor any biblical author was describing a stable, God-given attraction between two people of the same sex. Paul is describing people giving themselves over to excess: the rhetoric of a first-century Jewish man arguing against Greco-Roman idolatry, in a world where sexual exploitation was a tool of power.

And the passage does not stand alone. Romans 2 turns immediately on the reader: “You have no excuse, whoever you are, when you judge others.” Anyone using Romans 1 to condemn a neighbor has walked straight into Romans 2.

In one sentence

Romans 1 is an argument about idolatry, written before sexual orientation existed, and chapter 2 condemns the person who uses it to judge.

Read it for yourselfRomans 1:18-32Romans 2:1-4Romans 11:24
04

Two disputed Greek words

1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10

“Paul lists homosexuals among those who will not inherit the kingdom.”

English Bibles contain a word Paul never used.

The same verse, three translations

Read the differences. They are the whole argument.

King James Version 1611
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind.
NRSV 1989
Do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived! Fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, sodomites, thieves, the greedy, drunkards, revilers, robbers. None of these will inherit the kingdom of God.
Common English Bible 2011
Don’t you know that people who do wrong will not inherit God’s kingdom? Don’t be fooled! People who are sexually immoral, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, men who have sex with men, thieves, greedy people, drunkards, slanderers, and swindlers will not inherit God’s kingdom.

The Greek words in question are malakoi (“soft ones”) and arsenokoitai, a word Paul appears to have invented. It shows up in no surviving Greek literature before him, and it seems to be built from the Greek translation of Leviticus 18:22 (“male” plus “bed”). Nobody knows precisely what Paul meant by it. The earliest Christians after him who used the word applied it to pederasty and to the sexual exploitation of slaves and prostitutes.

Malakoi is used elsewhere for weakness or self-indulgence: the morally soft person, not “the receptive partner in a covenant relationship.” Both words sit in vice lists alongside greed, gossip, drunkenness, and cheating, in letters written to a city where sexual access to enslaved people and boys was routine and unremarkable.

The word “homosexual” did not appear in any English Bible until the 1946 Revised Standard Version. The word itself was coined in German in 1869. Translating arsenokoitai as “homosexuals” is a twentieth-century decision, made by translators who believed they were clarifying, and it changed what millions of people heard the Bible say.

In one sentence

“Homosexuals” entered English Bibles in 1946, translating a rare Greek word whose meaning is disputed. That is a translator’s choice, not the text.

Read it for yourself1 Corinthians 6:9-111 Timothy 1:8-111 Corinthians 6:11 (the next verse: “you were washed”)
05

Clothing laws

Deuteronomy 22:5

“Deuteronomy forbids cross-dressing, so transgender people are condemned.”

A verse about garments in a chapter about oxen and roof railings.

The same verse, three translations

Read the differences. They are the whole argument.

King James Version 1611
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
NRSV 1989
A woman shall not wear a man’s apparel, nor shall a man put on a woman’s garment; for whoever does such things is abhorrent to the LORD your God.
Common English Bible 2011
A woman must not wear men’s clothing, and a man must not put on women’s clothing, since anyone doing these things is detestable to the LORD your God.

Deuteronomy 22 is a collection of everyday rules for an ancient agrarian community: what to do if you find a stray ox, how to build a roof railing so guests do not fall off, what not to wear while sowing seed. Its clothing rule addresses a world where what you wore signaled your place in a rigid social order, and where ritual cross-dressing was part of Canaanite worship.

It says nothing about gender identity, a concept the ancient world did not have. To apply it to a transgender person today is to stretch one line far beyond its context, while ignoring the hundreds of neighboring commands the same readers do not keep.

Scripture does have something to say about people whose place in society is fixed against them. Isaiah 56 records God promising the outsider and the eunuch “a place in my house” and “an everlasting name.” The Bible’s pattern is God expanding the circle, not guarding the gate.

In one sentence

This is an ancient clothing custom. It has no concept of gender identity, and scripture elsewhere keeps widening the welcome.

Read it for yourselfDeuteronomy 22:6-8Isaiah 56:3-5Acts 8:26-40
06

What the Bible doesn’t say

The missing verse

“The Bible is clear.”

Every biblical author assumed everyone was straight.

There is no passage in scripture that addresses what we are actually talking about today: a person with a stable, unchosen same-sex orientation, living in a mutual, faithful, consensual relationship. Every relevant text comes from cultures where same-sex acts were understood as excess, domination, or cultic practice, never as an identity or a love story.

Meanwhile the Bible is full of same-sex love that it praises without comment: David and Jonathan, whose love scripture says “was more wonderful than the love of women” (2 Samuel 1:26); Ruth clinging to Naomi with words now read at weddings (Ruth 1:16-17); the centurion whose beloved servant (pais, a word used for a younger male companion) is healed by Jesus, who praises the man’s faith above anyone in Israel (Matthew 8:5-13).

And the weight of scripture’s moral teaching lands somewhere else entirely: “The greatest commandments are these: love God, and love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37-40). “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love” (1 John 4:8). “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28).

In one sentence

The Bible never describes the thing you are being condemned for. What it does describe, over and over, is a God who keeps widening the welcome.

Read it for yourself2 Samuel 1:26Ruth 1:16-17Matthew 8:5-13Galatians 3:28Acts 15:1-29

The arc of scripture

From Genesis to Revelation, God keeps widening the circle.

This is not a handful of verses pulled out of context. It is the direction the whole book is travelling. Again and again, God brings in the person the religious people had already written off, and the insiders are the ones who have to adjust.

Genesis 12:3

“In you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”

The story of the Bible opens with a promise of inclusion. God’s chosen people are chosen for the sake of everyone else, never to become a gate.

Deuteronomy 10:19

“You shall also love the stranger, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.”

Israel’s law keeps repeating one command: remember what it felt like to be the outsider. That memory is the foundation of biblical ethics.

Ruth 1:16-17

“Where you go, I will go. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God.”

A Moabite widow, from a people the law explicitly excluded, binds herself to another woman and becomes the great-grandmother of King David, and an ancestor of Jesus. Her vow is read at weddings to this day.

Isaiah 56:3-8

“To the eunuchs I will give in my house and within my walls a monument and a name better than sons and daughters.”

Deuteronomy barred eunuchs and foreigners from the assembly. Isaiah says God gives them a place and a name, and calls his house “a house of prayer for all peoples.”

Jonah 4:2

“I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love.”

Jonah is furious that God forgave the outsiders he wanted destroyed. The book ends with God asking him whether his anger is right. The question is left hanging, for us.

Matthew 8:5-13

“Truly I tell you, in no one in Israel have I found such faith.”

A Roman centurion begs healing for his beloved servant. The Greek word is pais, used in that era for a younger male companion. Jesus praises his faith above anyone in Israel and heals the man. No lecture, no condition.

John 4:7-30

“Come and see a man who told me everything I have ever done!”

A Samaritan woman, wrong ethnicity, wrong gender, wrong reputation, becomes the first evangelist in John’s gospel. Her town believes because of her.

Acts 8:26-40

“What is to prevent me from being baptized?”

An Ethiopian eunuch, excluded by the same Deuteronomic rule, is reading Isaiah 56 when Philip reaches him. The Spirit interrupts the journey to include him. The answer to his question is: nothing.

Acts 10:9-48

“What God has made clean, you must not call profane.”

Peter has spent his life certain about who was out. God gives him a vision three times, then sends him to a Gentile’s house, where the Spirit falls before anyone can finish the argument.

Acts 15:1-29

“It has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us to impose on you no further burden.”

The church’s own precedent. When scripture was being used to keep people out, the apostles re-read it, listened to the Spirit, and refused to burden the newcomers. The canon contains the record of the church changing its mind.

Galatians 3:28

“There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.”

Paul lists the three hardest divisions of his world and says they are gone. The church has spent two thousand years catching up to this sentence.

Ephesians 2:14-16

“He has broken down the dividing wall, that is, the hostility between us.”

The wall in the temple courtyard kept outsiders away from God. The New Testament’s central claim is that Christ tore it down, and that rebuilding it is the one thing the gospel will not tolerate.

Verses of belonging

What scripture says about you, when no one is quoting it at you.

Keep these somewhere you can reach them: a note on your phone, the inside of a journal. Read them slowly. They were in the book the whole time.

“So God created humankind in his own image; in the image of God he created them.”

Genesis 1:27

You were made in the image of God, before any rule and before any argument. That is the first thing scripture says about you.

“You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”

Psalm 139:13-14

Your life was not an accident, and it was not a mistake in need of correction.

“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.”

Isaiah 43:1

Called by name. Known. Claimed, not tolerated.

“There is no fear in love, for perfect love casts out fear.”

1 John 4:18

Any theology that leaves you afraid of God has already told you something about itself.

“Neither death, nor life, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God.”

Romans 8:38-39

“Anything else in all creation” includes the person in the pulpit who told you that you were outside it.

“Love the Lord your God, and love your neighbor as yourself.”

Matthew 22:37-40

On this hangs the whole law. Everything else is commentary, including the verses used against you.

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit.”

Psalm 34:18

Near, not disappointed. The God of scripture keeps showing up closest to the people who were told to stay away.

“He has sent me to bring good news to the oppressed, to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives.”

Isaiah 61:1

This is the job description Jesus read aloud in his first sermon (Luke 4:18). Binding up, not breaking down.

“You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill cannot be hidden.”

Matthew 5:14

Not “you could be, if you changed.” You are, and hiding it was never the point.

“You did not choose me, but I chose you.”

John 15:16

Chosen before you had anything to prove, and chosen still.

“What God has made clean, you must not call profane.”

Acts 10:15

Said to Peter about the people he had been taught to keep out. The church changed its mind because God spoke first.

“For freedom Christ has set us free. Stand firm, therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.”

Galatians 5:1

You are not required to return to the room that bound you. Freedom is the gospel, not a concession.

“The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

Galatians 5:22-23

A fair test of any teaching: does it produce this in you, or fear, shame, and hiding? Jesus said you would know a tree by its fruit.

“A great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne.”

Revelation 7:9

That is the guest list at the end of the story. Whatever the ushers told you, you are on it.

When someone pushes back

The eight things you will hear, and an answer for each.

Read these once before the conversation, not during it. You are not trying to win an argument with someone who has already decided; you are refusing to let their version of the text be the only one in the room.

Go deeper

If you want the long version.

Every claim on this page has been made at book length by scholars and pastors who take scripture seriously. Start with any of these. Most are available at a public library.

God and the Gay Christian

Matthew Vines

The clearest book-length case, passage by passage.

Unclobber: Rethinking Our Misuse of the Bible

Colby Martin

A pastor works through each clobber verse honestly.

Changing Our Mind

David P. Gushee

A leading Christian ethicist explains his change of heart.

Transforming: The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians

Austen Hartke

Scripture read with trans people, not about them.

Does Jesus Really Love Me?

Jeff Chu

A gay Christian travels America asking the hard question.

The Reformation Project

theReformationProject.org

Free, rigorous resources for talking with your family and church.

Where to take this next

Organisations doing this work, for free.

Every one of these has been at it for years, and none of them will ask you to leave your faith at the door. Independent of this site.

The Reformation Project

A free, rigorous biblical case for inclusion, including short videos on each clobber passage and a conference for people who want to change their church.

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Q Christian Fellowship

A global community of LGBTQ+ Christians and allies, with small groups, an annual conference, and spaces for people who thought they had to choose.

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GayChurch.org

A worldwide directory of affirming, welcoming congregations. Search by city and read what each one actually says.

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Church Clarity

Scores congregations on how clearly they state their LGBTQ+ policies, so you can tell an affirming church from a vague one before you walk in.

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Believe Out Loud

Stories, devotionals, and plain language resources from Christians who read scripture this way.

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DignityUSA

LGBTQ+ Catholics and allies, for anyone who wants to stay in their tradition rather than leave it.

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Keshet

Advocacy and education for LGBTQ+ Jews; useful if the exclusion you met came wrapped in a synagogue rather than a church.

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Transfaith

Resources by and for transgender people of faith: scripture, pastoral care, and community.

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FreedHearts

Written for parents and family of LGBTQ+ people who were taught to fear this. Send it to the person who is struggling with you.

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Coming Home to Judaism and Christianity

A practical guide to reconciling faith and identity, including how to talk to a pastor or rabbi who has already decided.

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“You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

John 8:32

Whoever told you that you had to choose between honesty and God was not quoting scripture. They were quoting fear.

Read how other people got free